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Here's some LOVE from a few of my clients!

Working with Jamie has been life changing for me. When we first started our sessions together, I felt confused and frustrated and some days it was hard to just put one foot in front of the other. After our first session together, I felt excited and motivated and capable. I knew what I wanted and Jamie knew how to help me get there. Not only was she supportive and always kind, but she taught me tools I’ll be able to use and hold onto forever. I knew right away that I had found someone who listened and understood me, and met me exactly where I was. Each session was thoughtful and loving and provided me with what I needed at the time. Over the course of three months, I truly feel like I accomplished things that I had been trying to accomplish alone for over a year now. Jamie held me accountable for the goals that I set, but always being gentle and loving at the same time. I feel so grateful I was able to connect with her the way I did. I miss our sessions already...
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“It’s been a little over four months since my journey with a Spiritual Life Coach began and I can tell you again that it was worth it. I feel more myself than ever before. I am confident, goal oriented and I love how much I have learned about myself and other people. Jamie helped me overcome some of my worst moments. I am so glad I followed my intuition and invested in myself. I know you will love working with Jamie. Click here to book your first discovery session (You won’t regret it.)

“I have to say when it came to getting a coach I was so skeptical at first because this whole coaching world was very new to me. I also knew if I had told any close friends and family that I had a life coach they would look at me like I had ten heads.
After working with Jamie I think it’s BS to first, worry about what other people think and second, if we have coaches for everything else in life why would having a LIFE coach be any different. When we go to school we are taught algebraic expressions and history of the USA, but nobody every taught us how to navigate this game called life.
Every week I would look forward to working with Jamie and she made me feel so comfortable, I honestly felt like I was just chatting with a friend for an hour. Also, for the record before Jamie, I set up discovery calls with other coaches who never got back to me, changed the day numerous times and other times would forget about the call. Jamie is extremely professional and she never canceled a session, and treats her clients with such respect.
Some of the things I loved about working with Jamie were the homework assignments she would give me!!! I looked forward to them so much and if I didn’t get to them for whatever reason, she would always say in all things don’t stress and always have fun!
If you’re on the fence about getting a coach don’t question it for another second! As we got older our subconscious starts to come from a place of fear in order to protect us and if there’s anything I learned from Jamie it’s not that she was teaching me something new......she’s having me get to a place that was within me all along.”


"I have so much to say about why everyone needs to do life coaching! I started coaching with Jamie when I was faced with many forks in the road: Not sure which path to choose for my career, what goals to focus on, how to focus on my priorities. I was not confident and extremely doubtful in making the wrong choice. Right from the start, Jamie was able to help me lift the mental haze I was facing and empower me in my decision-making process. After completing life coaching with Jamie, I am more confident in following my internal compass, despite what family, friends, and those around me are saying. I feel true inner happiness, and this shows through in my work as a commercial and lifestyle model. There is proof it is all working: I am modeling full-time with no financial help, and am living my life each day through my highest self. I wake up with a renewed passion and determination each morning, and an energy to set the world on fire. I live like I already have all of the things I have ever dreamed of - They will come when they are supposed to. I gained the tools necessary to help break down all of the situations I face in my life, no matter how big or small each situation is. Get ready to have your perception changed and your vision made crystal clear!"

"I went to Jamie so that I could get help on overcoming my fears with starting my own coaching business. What drew me to her was her sincerity and down to earth personality. I knew we could relate! She not only helped me with my fears, she help me push past my issues with self esteem and gave me a new mindset on why I truly wanted to be a coach in the first place. Jamie has an amazing quality that allows you to feel so comfortable in your own skin while pushing you to be brave and be the best version of you. I truly feel that without her I would have never taken the leap of faith of launching Actively Happy Coaching. Jamie is as genuine as they come and I would recommend her highly to anyone needing a push in the direction of their dreams."

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"Jamie came into my life exactly when I needed her most! I truly feel like it was divine timing and she was sent from angels! When we met, I immediately felt an energetic connection to her, and knew that I wanted to be around her more. Deciding to work with her was one of the biggest, yet easiest decisions I've ever made. She helped me to work through my fears about starting my own business and helped me to make the leap into entrepreneurship in such a painless way. With Jamie's support, I was able to set and exceed goals for myself that I never would have had the nerve to set on my own. She helped me to get out of my own head and to shift my limiting beliefs into positive ones. Conversations with Jamie flow so easily- she is such an amazing listener, and allows the right messages and information to flow through her with certainty and grace. She gave me endless tools and tips to integrate into my life, and I've been able to develop some new daily practices for myself because of her! I am beyond grateful to Jamie for helping me to step out of fear and into my greatness so that I can now share my truth with the world!"

"I will be forever grateful for the guidance and wisdom Jamie gave me during our 6 week coaching sessions. She’s intuitive, genuine, and truly knows what her clients need. Her exercises she suggested were life changing for me. Thanks to our sessions, I had the courage to take huge leaps of faith in my own life. More importantly, she taught me to find the fun and joy in everyday. She’s truly a lightworker and I am so grateful to have crossed paths with her."




"Where do I start with Jamie? I followed her for quite some time on social media and then listened to a podcast that she was on- I just felt like she kept popping up everywhere- like it was a sign from the universe to reach out, so I did! I’m so happy I did too because working with her has changed my life and my perspective! I worked with Jamie for four weeks and I learned so much. Jamie’s title is a spiritual life coach but she’s more than that! She helped me- a twenty-something mom of two who was feeling a little lost and defeated- dig deep into my soul to find my passions, purpose, drive, and focus again. She helped me gain so much clarity in my professional life and my personal life. My relationships with people changed, my priorities shifted, and my perspective on everything changed once I started working with Jamie. The things I learned in a month are tools that I can carry with me for a lifetime. If you’re feeling a little lost and want to get more in tune with yourself and discover how amazing your life can truly be, I HIGHLY recommend working with Jamie! I hope I get to meet her in real life one day so I can give her a giant hug and say thank you in person!"


"Prior to coaching with Jamie, and as a new yoga teacher and entrepreneur, I was diligently working to improve my entire self: body, mind, emotions, and spirit. But when it came to showing up and actually living out my dreams, I knew I was 'playing small'. Jamie's expertise, support, and her collection of perfect analogies to hit-home a lesson (literally, perfect!) unlocked so much potential in me! I felt more empowered and confident after each session; having a clear set of practices, tools, and guidance that I could immediately implement. It's made a positive impact on the focus of my yoga business and big shifts in my life. Jamie has an amazing gift to unlock what's already inside of you, while introducing accessible practices and tools to help you 'play big.'"


“Before Jamie, I was looking for motivation, someone to guide me in a direction I knew I wanted to go. I was searching for a deeper understanding of myself, my goals, my thoughts. At first I learned how to set goals, huge or small, & I was hesitant to open up to a stranger who couldn’t possibly understand my complex emotions. Jamie made me feel comfortable, safe, & like we’d been friends for years. With good faith I leaned to her for guidance & truly put her teachings to use. During this time of one month together, I set goals & actually achieved them! I made huge leaps & confidence struts towards my dreams of being a destination photographer. I finally started telling myself & everyone that I was exactly what I’ve been wanting to be. Just by speaking on what I want, my whole mindset was flipped, & that created opportunities for me right away. I literally learned how to breathe correctly, I even manifested my dream home! I believed fully that what Jamie was teaching me was going to really help me & here I am tearing up because she changed my life. I learned to trust my intuition which in turn led me to more reading, more writing, more discovery of myself, & more believing that anything I want & dream is in my control. I’ve really jumped into my photography, but because of her impact on me, my interests in life coaching have been sparked & I’ve chosen to pursue that as well. Not something I would’ve ever thought of, because I never imagined I could do so many things at once. Now I am on my own but I know Jamie will always be there to guide me if I ever feel lost again. I am so grateful for her time, her guidance, breathing lessons, & redirection for I am more me than ever before. Thank you for believing in me Jamie."

“Working with Jamie has been an eye opening experience. The lessons and gentle reminders she offered allowed to connect and have an inquiry with self. I was able to realize where I was holding myself back as well as observe when I was standing in my own way! It’s so easy to place blame elsewhere but her sweet reminders of how we are our own creators really resonated with me. I not only tackled my goals that we set, but am continuing to do so!”


I was instantly intrigued by Jamie’s spiritual life coaching sessions when we met at her yoga retreat in January, but had absolutely no idea what to expect. Thankfully, she was holding free discovery calls so I booked a session just to learn more. To be frank, I wanted to sign up but I was terrified by the price— my own limiting beliefs on my financial situation and self-worth were literally holding me back from chasing my dreams. Jamie and I worked out a payment plan that I was comfortable with and I finally trusted my gut by saying YES! I wish I could properly convey the ecstatic feeling I experienced every time we met through Zoom. She created a safe container for me to share my inner fears, thoughts, and dreams on my career, aspirations, and personal life. Without judgment, shame, or disappointment, our conversations flowed effortlessly. Jamie is one of those special souls who possesses the gift of uncanny intuition and mentorship. Her repository of knowledge allowed me to overcome my own limiting behaviors time and again, and for that I am forever grateful. After my first session, all my anxiety around funding these sessions gracefully melted away. I was proud to have signed up, to show up week after week, to invest in myself and my future, and to start owning my dreams of traveling the world, starting a podcast, and teaching yoga. I am now living out every single one of my New Year’s resolutions I set 6 months ago all thanks to 6 wonderful weeks with Jamie.
— karen wang

Before signing up to work with Jamie, my limiting beliefs and fears ruled my life. I was skeptical about the idea of “life coaching”, but I knew I had to do something to make a change. Jamie instantly makes you feel comfortable and like she’s one of your friends. I left each of our sessions feeling calm and empowered. She holds you accountable, teaches you to show up for yourself, how to handle setbacks, how to let go of your fears and the things that haven’t worked in the past. Jamie is a coach and a teacher, but the most valuable thing she teaches is how to one day work without her! She gives you the tools and the insight to move forward with positive change in your life. When I reflect on the 3 months I spent working with Jamie, materially so many things I was trying to achieve manifested (a raise, additional money every month, the sale of my home). But more than that, I have a different outlook on life and on myself. If you’re considering her coaching sessions, I can wholeheartedly recommend them. I cannot thank Jamie enough!
— Mary Cusumano

Jamie is such a light in my life! I had done previous personal development and spiritual growth work prior to working with her, but she elevated my life in a way I couldn’t have predicted. She was 100% present and provided such a valuable perceptive on life. Oh, and her analogies were spot on! She totally complimented my learning style. I have been able to take her tools and get into a real flow with the universe and create a life I want, business-wise and life-wise. I cannot thank her enough for the spark she created in my life and I’m forever grateful for her guidance! You cannot afford to not have Jamie in your life.
— Kate Williams

Jamie has helped me in so many ways it’s hard to put them all into words. She helped me shift my mindset around the limiting beliefs that I had around money, success and what is really out there for me. She helped me realize that I already had all the abundance inside of me while also giving me real life tools to use when I find myself in lack mode, stressed or any other shadow sides that begin to come out. Some of them have really solidified themselves into my daily life, like giving more, clearing space and the emotional freedom techniques. Overall, I finally feel like I have a grip on where I’m going and don’t find myself living in doubt, fear or scarcity. Honestly, I feel like everyone needs a coach in their life to push them to the next level and Jamie definitely helped me do that!
— Caroline Chinkel
I am so glad I decided to invest in a life coach, and I am even more pleased that I picked Jamie! The tools she provided are incredibly useful and brought so much clarity and meaning to my everyday tasks and, most importantly, they helped me define the person I want to become. I was shocked (I still am!) at how quickly I was able to manifest a few major things in my life during our time together such as more CONFIDENCE in teaching yoga (I secured a weekly yoga class at my home studio!), a new HOME (an offer for a condo was accepted after looking for months!) and a new PERSPECTIVE an my current job (she helped me realize my mindset was completely wrong if I wanted to bring in new opportunities!). I am so grateful for Jamie and her love, support, and knowledge. I looked forward to every session we had and have tools I can use every day for the rest of my life! When the time is right and I need a life coach again, I will be reaching out to her. Thank you JAMIE! <3

I found Jamie when I was feeling lost and stuck in my professional life. It may sound funny, but her Instagram captions were so insightful and thought-provoking that I was so keen on learning more and figuring out what I wanted in life. (Def give her a follow!) But, after a few months of coaching with Jamie I found her work to be brilliant, practical, and fun! She’s helped me to uncover how to find what brings me joy. I received more clarity and always walk away feeling uplifted and ready to dive into life. It also helps that when I talk to her it feels like I’m talking to a best friend/spiritual teacher/life coach all in one! Jamie is refreshing and would recommend her services to anyone needing clarity or if you just want to talk and get guidance on ANY topic!

I recently signed up again/for a second time for a longer weekly package to keep me on track and actively working towards my goals/becoming a better person!
— Denise D.

I am forever grateful for Jamie. She helped me more than I think she’ll ever really know. Her coaching made me realize the routine I had been on & guided me to stop simply “going thru the motions.” That is, she truly helped me be grounded and more *specific* with my goals. With her encouraging, loving and genuine nature, she challenged me to really believe in myself, she had me re-evaluate my core beliefs, and look within myself in order to identify my dreams and to let go of how I “think” they should happen... Thank you, Jamie. Thank you for reminding me to “water my dreams every day” like it were a flower.
— Regina S.

Jamie is an incredibly warm-hearted and sincerely gracious person. She has this amazing energy, full of support and encouragement that instantly allowed me to feel comfortable. Jamie gave me her fullest attention; I felt like she really put herself in my shoes to gain an understanding of my perspective. She knew just what I needed to hear, and directed me towards a shift in mindset to help me figure out what I truly want, and empowering me to go after that. I can really tell that coaching is more than just a profession for Jamie, it is her passion and life purpose. Thank you so much for those amazing coaching sessions, Jamie!

I did a one on one coaching session with Jamie that was wonderful. The exercises and tools she provided to help me with my anxiety were beyond helpful, so simple to understand and they were also fun. They gave me confidence and hope in my path. She provides such refreshing feedback and helps you to realize the truth and reason behind whatever is going on in your life so you can deal with the core issue to transform your life in ways you want. Her tools helped communication in my relationships, gain clarity on where I want to live and what I want in and with my partner, my ideal living situation and simple action steps on how I can get there. It really helped put a plan and direction to heal and clarify the root cause of my anxiety. I am so much clearer on how to deal with it and what to do so I am not stuck in the cycle of my thoughts. She is also so lovely and her energy is so calming to be around. I would definitely recommend her and see her again!
— Athena M.

I had an incredible, life-changing one-on-one coaching session with Jamie. The last few years I have been bottling up my emotions and have felt stagnant in some aspects of my life and relationships. I’m typically a guarded and shy person, but Jamie’s non-judgmental and trusting qualities really helped me open up, allowing me to explore feelings with a sense of safety. One of the greatest gifts that Jamie gave me was clarity. The ability to be open and honest with my feelings and then helping me stay clear about my goals, what I want, and what direction I want to head in. She provided me the space to think about myself, my thoughts, and feelings and what is important to me. We went through some enlightening exercises, and she helped me brainstorm possible solutions for some of my challenges I am dealing with. Most of all she helped me become more aware of my self-limiting beliefs and made me realize what I am truly capable of, simply by changing my mindset. She helped instill a sense of self-understanding that has helped me accept myself as well as my flaws. She even gave me some action-oriented plans that really appealed to me and have helped me identify my dreams, gain self-confidence, and recognize what’s blocking my fulfillment. I’ve already seen a transformation in myself just by making small changes to my way of thinking.

Jamie is a phenomenal, intuitive, helpful, kind and genuine person, and her coaching is the best investment you can make for yourself. I left the session feeling inspired, relaxed, more present, and hopeful for the future.
— Heather S.

Had it not been for my wife (who met Jamie during a retreat in Bali), I perhaps would not have reached out to her for coaching. I’m not one to seek advice often, or to ask for help...much less from a “life coach.” I’d already seen a therapist, man. I’ve read self-help books, dude. I know myself, bro. I don’t need a coach to tell me how to live my life. I would shrug, smile and nod... but I never took coaching seriously, until I met Jamie. Needless to say I was skeptical... but I got to know her a bit and I trust my wife, so I gave it a shot. Couldn’t hurt, right? I soon came to find that my general skepticism was a symptom to a much larger issue. Things that Jamie helped me realize and start working on from day one.

My skepticism in life coaching was not very different from the lack of belief in myself, or my general outlook towards the world around me. I had trouble trusting that I was on the right path, would overthink every outcome but overlook what was in front of me, and felt lost in a spiral of anger and despair. I’d struggle with negative thought patterns, spiral into dissatisfaction, I had trouble staying present, and would just limit myself in ways I wasn’t even aware of. Then Jamie danced into my dark tunnel holding a giant spotlight and took the plugs out of my ears so I could hear the music. She offered me healthy ways to manage my focus & intentions, taught me to be mindful of myself and my surroundings, and have better control of my thoughts through simple techniques.

Things started to change almost immediately. Not just in the way I looked at the world...but the way it looked back. It’s hard to explain, but easy to perceive. I took steps to be “back on track” through the tools she gave me, but more importantly, the track began to reveal itself to me in ways I wouldn’t have noticed had I not been coaching. I just sensed it, and over time would see the changes manifest in positive ways. The seemingly simple adjustments she helped me make had an immediate impact - as if I had been driving with flats for years until now - she helped me prove myself wrong by simply highlighting the things I had right.

Put simply, she helped me realize I was in my own way. I became quick to listen and slow to speak - found common solutions to common problems - I focused on intention and gratitude everyday - I healed, I grew, and I learned to fully embrace the journey rather than focus solely on the outcomes.

Moreover, Jamie provided me with thought experiments and daily exercises to prevent the negative thought patterns from spiraling as they had so frequently before our sessions. She held me accountable for the assignments and checked up on me on the weeks we didn’t speak. Jamie is easy-going, a great listener, and a thoughtful coach. I broke many bad habits that had hindered my growth as a professional and as a human being... and I am forever grateful.

I know that you are doubting whether you should book with Selectively Spiritual. You should book with Jamie, PERIOD. Because I’ve decided to book with Selectively Spiritual; I’ve been able to increase income, shift my mindset, lose weight and denounce limiting beliefs. I hope that you are ready to transform your life.
— india c.